Friday, June 5, 2009

Sharing

Today I found the answer to many things I have questioned & the answer was sharing. Intriguing? These questions centered around the human desire to be with others. This includes things like having a wife/husband, family, even friends. I like all of those ideas, but I have many times wondered why. As I was walking today, the pieces came together. Like a puzzle on a table in the dining room that was always so close to being finished, but just a few connections kept it from being complete.

We can all feel happiness, pain, fear, excitement but what are these things if it is only us that feels them? The good things seem to pass more quickly than the bad. We all, at some point in life, want to & seek to share these things with others. To Share is the driving factor of our feelings of desire for friends, family, spouses. Sharing confirms, enhances, & most importantly reflects & passes along these feelings to others. In return, sharing gives us an intrinsic reward from the confirmation of our feelings, or the opposite a realization that our feelings may have been misled.

I have heard the saying many times before that people like to, "bring you to their level." Today, I have remembered the reason why & it is because of our desire to share our emotion. In a world that is moving faster & faster every day, we have this very natural desire to share our emotion. Sometimes sharing is to bring others to our level & other times it is to attempt to heal ourselves & in essence bring ourselves back to our own level. I have the desire to share to express my experiences & thoughts so that others who may come across the same tests as I have can see how one person handled them & worked through them. I know that I cannot make the correct decision 100% of the time, but I also know that with time & experience I can develop & grow to limit my own margin of error as much as possible.

I am convinced that sharing is one of the reasons for our natural & internal desires to surround ourselves with the people we do. What is life, love, or happiness if we don't have others to share them with? Momentary. The reflection of these things is what we look for from sharing & we become unhappy when our feelings are not. Today, I challenge you to find one happy thing & share it with another person & see how affects them. Peace, LOVE, & Happiness to you all!!!

Bless You!
Thomas

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