Meant to Be

Many of us have a desire to be with another person who we feel we are meant to be with. We look for some who matches & compliments us where we want. It is almost like an innate sense or desire. Even if we are completely comfortable by ourselves, there is a lingering desire to share ourselves with a partner. So, we create lists & sometimes assumptions of how we think the things we seek will be.

Where we run into trouble is when we surpass the things that we can put into words. When we are looking for "IT." Something that we could easily point out if we see "IT," but that is not always easily put into words to describe to others. This could be because at a certain level we are looking for more than words can actually describe. This could be like if you ever met someone with a personality that meshes with yours so well that you are left breathless after a meeting, or if you meet someone & feel like you have known them before but are positive you have never met in this lifetime. There are just certain indescribable aspects that can go beyond words & that may exist at a level of pure emotion. They move you & I feel that is what many of us are looking for is someone that not only matches the different ways that we want them to, but they go so far beyond those that they move us in a way we can only describe as "IT."

The fact is that there are millions of people all around the world that day to day live in some of the happiest relationships around. Did they know that they were perfect at first sight, did they have problems & work through them like adults, did they come together through arranged marriages, or did they become perfect through growing together & learning to compromise. The fact is that there is no one perfect way to get to having a perfect relationship, but marriage of two people is something that is sacred & should be protected. There is no room for things like: passive aggressiveness, lying, cheating, lack of communication, or growth without your spouse.

The point is that you should never give up on LOVE, because LOVE will never give up on you. Also, you never have to depend on another for it, because it is always inside you & you have the ability to give & receive LOVE at any time. See my previous posts...there are always people that are willing to share in this emotion with you & spread Happiness with you. You just have to do your fair share of looking & be willing to allow yourself to be vulnerable & open to really receiving LOVE from someone else. You are most able to receive LOVE when you are most vulnerable. Please take time today to look at your life & ensure that you are taking the right steps to grow in your relationships & in LOVE. Peace, LOVE, & Happiness to you all!!!

Bless You!
Thomas