Ponderance...

First of all, I have to say that today is a wonderful day! Again, I awaken thinking about relationships. I swear I will not be stuck on this issue forever, but do enjoy critically thinking about it. As I have stated in previous posts, one we all have been told that they do not define us & if we do let one define us it should be the relationship we have with our God. The other interesting part is that when this further develops in my head I think that God exemplifies Love & Love is what gives the desire to find another person that we can share our lives with.

So, we put our hearts on the line & seek out that other piece of us...that in some way seems to complete us. I know...I know...thank you Jerry McGuire :) But seriously, the majority of us look for that person that fits with us, electrifies us, & makes us smile at the thought of them. So, we do open our hearts & let others in. Sometimes we learn from the times we do, sometimes it turns out like the sad movies & we are left broken down & wondering why we had to have that experience, & other times we are absolutely stunned. Although we are constantly learning from these experiences, we many times internalize the things that happen & ask ourselves...why me?

For myself, I wonder if I did something in the bigger scheme of things that qualified me to deserve it. I think about it & realize that I did not do anything & that I am not the only one that has walked this road before, but I can be the best at walking this road & set an example on my journey! So, what is the point then? The point is this...Even though we must endure tests, challenges, & storms in our lives, they are there for the sole purpose of teaching us what we need to know to fulfill our destiny. So, don't be afraid to express your thoughts & feelings & if you do that you will never have to think about what could have been or worry about attracting the wrong people. Also, have fun thinking about how you will feel when you get to the place your road leads. Will you feel silly for thinking too into things, happy that you went through them, or will you not even care? Only time will tell, but one thing is for sure...good things come to good people & you are a good person! Love, peace, & happiness to you all!!!

Thomas